Friday, July 27, 2007

To the "Old Friend"....

Friendship is a funny thing. Just like any other relationships it needs to be nurtured. To me, I liken friendship to that of the man/woman relationship. Its just as complicated, if not more. It needs to be built and nurtured. And then there's are those friends whom you know are the "right" ones for you. The soul mates. I have had my fair share of crashes and burns from the different friendships that I have built up over the years. From school days to college days to now ... my working days. There were those true friends who has stuck by me through thick and thin. Watched me laughed and watched me cry, they did it with me. There were those who watched me laughed and watched me cry just from a distance. Then there those who first made me laugh, then the very ones who made me cry. Each has left a significant mark in my life.

There are friends who walked in and stayed put through all the years. Then there are those that walked in and walked out and yet inexplicably who came back, and things just fell back to the way they were, just like they never left. Then ... there's those who walked in, stamped around, tore what I thought were beatiful tapestries of a friendship formed into shreds and left the little pieces lying around...

To you the friend(s) that has always stayed with me through thick and thin ... my deepest and most heartfelt thanks. I hope that I'm the same friend to you as you are to me. This is for you ...

You Were There For Me
Words escape me
at this moment
that seems like the end
yet it is only the beginning
when friendships are close
and dreams are far
you were there for me
Tears fill me with memories
of both good and bad
some nearly forgetton
yet all dear to the heart
you were there for me
In times of trouble
and in times of thanks
you stood by my side
and held me up
Through your ever-patient ears
to your comforting hugs
you were there for me
From that first day
when I saw you
and knew that
you would love me
for who I was
you were there for me
And until the day
when we are old and gray
I will always know that
you are there for me
For the friend(s) who walked out and walked back in again just as though you never left. And especially to the one who has just walked back in recently and opened up to me as I have to you, this is for you...
A Friend Like You
Everyone should havea friend like you
You are so much fun to be withAnd you are such a good person
You crack me up with laughter
And touch my heart with your kindness
You have a wonderful abilityT
o know when to offer advice
And when to sit in quiet support
Time after time
You've come to my rescue
And brightend so many
Of my routine days
And time after time
I've realized how fortunate
I am that my life includes you
I really do believe that
Everybody should have a friend like you
But so far it looks like
You are one of a kind!!
To the friend(s) that walked out, shredded what I believed in and left the pieces behind...
Friends No Longer
Sorry I forgot to tell you
That as my friend you must be true.

As that I went to say,
No more were we at play.

I meant to tell you the future looked bright,
But all of a sudden we got in a fight.

I went to tell you we should be friends,
That I will be here untill the end.

But you would not listen to me,
So friends no longer shall we be.

Hmmm .. sitting here with nothing to do and reflecting on the past is making me a little pyschotic! But seriously, thank YOU for being there for me all these while and also to YOU who came back! (Y'all know who you are!!!)

XOXOXO

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Remember there was a time when we're had a minor misunderstanding during Form 5, where we stopped talking to each other for quite sometimes? Then there were times we're like sisters & best pals that anyone would always wished they've had...yeah...friendship is precious. Thanks for the effort of finding me! *HUGZ*

Anonymous said...

Yesh .. funny isn't. However, for the life of me now, I cant even remember what was the fight all about!!! :P